What can I do differently in 2026 to fall pregnant?

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As we enter a new year, it’s important to remind ourselves not to panic and to remain proactive when trying to have a baby. Below we discuss some of the changes you can make to optimise your fertility and how a fertility specialist can assist you.

Things you can do to improve your chances

Lifestyle changes

How you live can have a big impact on your fertility, and making some changes to your lifestyle can increase your likelihood of conceiving. For instance, quitting smoking and avoiding the use of recreational drugs benefits the overall reproductive health of both men and women. Other lifestyle changes that we recommend making when trying to fall pregnant (particularly over the silly season) include:

  • Consuming caffeine in moderation (1–2 teas/coffees per day)
  • Enjoying a safe amount of alcohol (including at least two alcohol-free days per week)
  • Exercising regularly but not excessively (30­–40 minutes three times per week)
  • Maintaining a healthy weight/BMI (there is a lower success with IVF if BMI > 30).

Having a healthy and balanced diet is essential for both your general and reproductive health. Studies have shown that omega-3 fatty acids can improve fertility in women, while diets high in trans fats may reduce fertility. Diet also affects semen quality in male partners – for instance, men who consume fish, shellfish, poultry, wholegrain cereals and fruits and vegetables typically have a better semen analysis than those with diets high in sugar and processed meats and cereals. It’s also important to note that before enjoying your favourite meals, you should avoid reheating food in plastic containers. This reduces your exposure to estrogenic material which can also affect fertility.

Supplements

Folic acid is the main essential supplement we recommend taking while you are trying to conceive. Although folic acid doesn’t directly affect your fertility, it is very important for lowering the risk of spina bifida in the baby. We also recommend taking a good-quality multi-vitamin when you’re trying to fall pregnant.

Stress and anxiety

It’s normal to feel overwhelmed or anxious and to experience lots of uncertainty when embarking on your fertility journey. However, feelings of continual stress can affect your hormones and in turn reduce your chances of falling pregnant. Therefore, we recommend finding a stress management technique that works for you and your lifestyle, which may involve simply stopping and slowing down or calling someone you trust to share how you are feeling. Other ways that you can help lower your stress levels include:

  • Incorporating meditation or mindfulness exercises in your daily routine (e.g. with guided apps like Headspace, Smiling Mind, Calm)
  • Engaging in a relaxing activity (e.g. cooking, gardening, drawing)
  • Trying acupuncture, traditional medicine, naturopathy (seek those with specialist fertility backgrounds).

Online resources specific to fertility and IVF can also help you manage stress and anxiety. Some of these include:

  • Apps that provide guided relaxation and mindfulness (e.g. Mindful IVF, IVF relax)
  • Podcasts available on Spotify or other streaming services (e.g. IVF warrior playlist by Lisa Dickinson, Fertility meditations imagery and visualisations for IVF by Jackie Brown)

It’s also important to try not to engage in unhealthy coping mechanisms when feeling stressed, such as consuming alcohol or drugs and binge eating.

It’s all in the timing

Timing intercourse significantly increases your chances of successfully falling pregnant. Out of 100 fertile couples who conceived without timed intercourse, 50% fell pregnant within three months. On the other hand, 76% of similar couples who used a method for timed intercourse conceived within the first month of trying.

Women have a fertile window of about five days before until one day after ovulation. While sperm can survive 3–5 days in the uterus and tubes, an egg usually only survives for 12–24 hours in the tubes. This means that in order to have the highest chance of falling pregnant, intercourse should occur during the 2–3 days before ovulation. Cycle lengths vary from woman to woman, so finding the right time to have sex will be based on the individual. Hormone tests that measure LH (a hormone that rises and leads to ovulation) can be used to help work out the best time for intercourse. Other timing techniques include having intercourse when cervical mucus is slippery and clear, or when the basal body temperature of the female partner is lower (it usually rises after ovulation). There are also a number of smartphone apps available to help track your cycle so you can give yourself the best possible chance of conceiving.

Studies have found that pregnancy rates are slightly better in couples who have intercourse daily (37%) than those who have sex every second day (33%). However, couples should decide on the frequency based on their relationship and dynamics, as daily intercourse is also associated with higher stress levels. We normally advise couples to have sex second daily in the lead up to ovulation to boost their chances of falling pregnant.

Becoming fertility aware

Understanding your fertility better (such as when to time intercourse) will help you troubleshoot what may be going wrong. For additional resources on understanding fertility and optimising conception, see this Fertility 101 video series by Two Lines Fertility.

When to seek assistance

Women under 35 years of age are advised to seek help following 12 months of unprotected and frequent intercourse. As fertility declines with age, women between 35 and 40 are advised to seek specialist opinion after 6 months of trying. Some women who may need to seek help despite trying for less than 6 months include:

  • Women over 40 years of age
  • Women with oligomenorrhoea/amenorrhoea (infrequent or no periods)
  • Women with a history of chemotherapy, radiation therapy or advanced endometriosis
  • Women with known or suspected uterine/tubal disease.

Male partners with a history of groin or testicular surgery, adult mumps, impotence or any other sexual dysfunction, chemotherapy and/or radiation or a history of subfertility with another partner, are also advised to seek specialist opinion as soon as possible.

Your fertility specialist may ask you to undergo some fertility testing in order to fully understand your fertility needs. Some of these tests are described below.

Male factor evaluation

Semen analysis is the primary test for male fertility. A typical semen analysis involves assessing semen volume, sperm concentration and count, sperm motility (movement) and sperm morphology (shape). If the semen analysis appears abnormal, a second semen analysis will be done six weeks later, followed by consultation with a fertility specialist.

Female factor evaluation

There are a number of different tests that can be used to investigate female fertility, including:

  • Basic blood tests to check thyroid function and usual pre-pregnancy screening for infectious diseases
  • Ovulation testing
  • Uterine examinations (pelvic ultrasound)
  • Ovarian reserve tests (AMH testing, ‘Egg-timer test’)
  • Laparoscopy and hysteroscopy (especially for women with symptoms of potential endometriosis).

Tubal flushing can also help determine the patency of the fallopian tubes and is sometimes used as a dedicated intervention to increase fertility.

What if all that still doesn’t work?

Couples who have been trying to conceive for a year commonly require assistance with some form of fertility treatment. There are a few different options available depending on your individual fertility needs.

Ovulation induction

Ovulation induction involves taking medications (tablets or injections) to stimulate the production of hormones that grow and release an egg from a woman’s ovary.

IUI (intrauterine insemination)

Intrauterine insemination involves placing a large number of concentrated sperm into the uterus. By doing so, this boosts the chances of sperm meeting an egg and resulting in fertilisation.

IVF (in vitro fertilisation)

In vitro fertilisation is a procedure that involves fertilising the egg with sperm outside of the woman’s uterus, prior to it being transferred back into the womb for the remainder of the pregnancy. There are two steps in an IVF cycle – egg retrieval and embryo transfer. Egg retrieval is performed in hospital under light anaesthetic and typically takes 15–20 minutes. Patients are usually home 90 minutes later and may require paracetamol for the 1–2 day recovery period. Embryo transfer is a short, five-minute procedure guided by ultrasound. Patients do not routinely require an anaesthetic and are able to go back to work afterwards.

IVF with ICSI (intracytoplasmic sperm injection)

Typically, standard insemination is used during the IVF process – the sperm meets the egg and fertilises it within a laboratory dish. However, intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) is usually recommended when there is suspected or confirmed poor fertilisation results with standard insemination. ICSI involves directly injecting a single sperm into the centre of an egg, bypassing the outer covering of the egg and making fertilisation a bit easier.

In a nutshell

Making your dream of having a baby a reality can take a little time and persistence. There are some things you can do to help improve your chances and some things we can do to help too. Remember, if you are trying to fall pregnant over the silly season, take your multivitamins and don’t party too hard!

To meet with one of our fertility specialists and learn more about how you can improve your fertility or to discuss your fertility treatment options, call Newlife IVF on (03) 8080 8933 or book online via our appointments page.

The Art of ART – our campaign honouring the craft of IVF

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IVF is often described in purely scientific terms. Yet behind every procedure is something profoundly human. For patients, the journey is deeply personal, complex and emotional. For embryologists, it is a discipline that demands not only technical mastery but care, intention and empathy. Every patient’s experience is unique – much like a work of art, shaped by its own story and meaning.

This campaign draws on that parallel. In art, skill and imagination come together to create something meaningful. In IVF, science and human insight unite to nurture the earliest stages of life.

Assisted reproductive technology depends on advanced tools and rigorous standards, but its true strength lies in the people guiding each step with expertise and compassion. It is this balance – between precision and humanity – that we wanted to honour.

Finding meaning in the microscopic

Within the laboratory, embryologists work with structures so small they are invisible to the naked eye, yet they carry immense significance. Interpreting patterns of cell development demands not only scientific expertise, but a trained eye and steady hand.

There is a quiet beauty to this work – one defined by intention, care and the possibility of new beginnings.

This perspective is captured visually through the work of artist Kaitlin Walsh of Lyon Road Art, whose practice interprets embryonic development as flowing, luminous forms. Her pieces mirror what embryologists observe each day: the intricate, ordered progression that arises from complexity, and the sense of hope held within life at its earliest stage.

 

Where ART meets science

The Art of ART also reflects our belief that great IVF outcomes rely on more than technology alone. Behind every embryo assessment, laboratory process and clinical decision is a team applying years of experience, scientific training and the kind of instinct that only comes from deep familiarity and practice. It also honours the partnership between our team and each patient – a relationship built on trust, empathy and shared purpose.

At Newlife IVF, our fertility specialists, embryologists, nurses and counsellors have cultivated a level of expertise that elevates their work beyond technical procedure. Their work is a craft shaped by science, refined through skill and grounded in humanity.

Celebrating the craft behind IVF

Through this campaign, we aim to show that IVF is not simply a series of steps, but a deeply considered process that supports both the technical and emotional aspects of treatment. Science drives what we do, but it is our people – and the trust our patients place in them – that bring it to life.

The Art of ART recognises this balance, celebrating the dedication of our team in delivering fertility care that is thoughtful, precise and compassionate. It honours the human side of IVF, and the expertise that makes every patient’s journey distinctly their own.

Building resilience during IVF – how to cope with the highs and lows

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Building emotional resilience during IVF treatment can help you manage these emotions, recover from setbacks and cope with life’s difficulties and uncertainties.

What is resilience?

‘Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress.’1

Being resilient does not mean avoiding feelings of stress or emotional pain – rather, it is adapting to difficult or unexpected circumstances and bouncing back from the experience.

Resilience improves your wellbeing during fertility treatment

Concerning fertility, research has shown that higher levels of resilience among couples struggling with fertility are associated with enhanced quality of life and emotional stability, as well as lower fertility-related distress.2
Beyond helping you cope during fertility treatment, building resilience can have a positive impact on your overall health and wellbeing, leading to3:

    • Fewer depressive symptoms
    • Improved adaptation to stress
    • Enhanced ability to cope during distressing experiences
    • Improved physical health.

 

How to build resilience during fertility treatment

Like progressively strengthening a muscle, you can learn to become more resilient to life’s challenges over time. Here are some examples that may help.

Grow supportive connections

Drawing on the support of those around you, including your partner (where applicable), family or friends, can help share the emotional load of your experience as you continue with your fertility treatment.4 Help is a two-way street – in addition to accepting help, supporting your loved ones through difficult moments can help you feel connected to others while giving you a sense of satisfaction, in turn strengthening your resilience. Small and simple gestures like checking in with a friend or lending an empathetic ear while others are dealing with stress can also distract you from an inward focus where you feel stuck in your own problems.

Manage uncertainty

During fertility counselling sessions, we often dive into how to navigate feelings of uncertainty and lack of control that can be experienced during fertility treatment. This is because learning how to accept uncertainty – not just during fertility treatment but throughout life in general – can help develop resilience.

But merely accepting the unpredictability and ‘unknowns’ of your fertility care is not an easy thing to do, which is why we recommend practising mindfulness. Instead of latching onto feelings of uncertainty when these thoughts arise, acknowledge their existence and try to move through these feelings. This is one of the hardest things to do, so be kind to yourself while you work on this.

Set small, achievable goals

The pride and sense of accomplishment you feel when achieving a goal is motivating and energising, helping you to feel more optimistic. Research has shown that breaking down your overarching goal into smaller short-term goals can help reframe your mindset while also relieving feelings of disappointment after a negative fertility treatment cycle.4

So ensuring that your goals are achievable is a great way to build resilience. In this instance, the importance is not the goal itself but the process of setting small goals and noticing your progress.

Break down each step in your fertility treatment cycle into mini-goals – this might include taking your hormone injections each day, completing your blood tests and scans, having your embryo transfer or intrauterine insemination procedure, or getting through each day of the two-week wait before finding out whether the treatment resulted in the outcome you were hoping for.

Sprinkle in some joy

There can be moments of sadness and loss when trying to conceive, which can make it harder to appreciate other joys in life, particularly if your fertility journey is regularly on your mind (as it’s very easy for treatment to become a sole focus).

Try to maintain some ‘normality’ in your life by engaging in activities that bring you joy.4 Humour is also effective in helping to develop a more resilient nature, so exploring activities that make you laugh while giving you a break from treatment can help you stay connected to day-to-day life.

Take the time to reflect

Think back on obstacles that you have previously overcome and recognise that you have already been developing resilience over the years, perhaps without knowing it. Reflect on past situations that have caused you stress, grief or trauma and ask yourself:

      • What worked in helping you to cope during these times?
      • What didn’t work well?
      • Who were the best people to help you at those times?

Take these learnings about building resilience during your IVF journey and draw on them when working through any disappointing or unexpected outcomes.

Connect with our supportive counselling team

Our compassionate Newlife IVF counsellors are here to guide you through every step of your journey.

At Newlife IVF, we are committed to supporting our patients the best we can, which includes providing you with additional counselling sessions at no extra cost. To book an appointment with one of our counsellors, call (03) 8080 8933 or email us at [email protected]. And to make things easy for you, we are more than happy to consult with you over the phone so you don’t have to take time off work.

Remember, you have made it through rough times before. You’ve got this.

References

  1. American Psychological Association. Building your resilience. American Psychological Association. 2020. Accessed 20249. https://www.apa.org/topics/resilience ↩
  2. Herrmann D, Scherg H, Verres R et al. Resilience in infertile couples acts as a protective factor against infertility-specific distress and impaired quality of life. J Assist Reprod Genet. 2011;28(11):1111–1117. doi:10.1007/s10815-011-9637-2 ↩
  3. Quyen G, Vandelanotte C, Cope K, et al. The association of resilience with depression, anxiety, stress and physical activity during the COVID-19 pandemic. BMC Public Health. 2022;22. ↩
  4. Bailey A, Ellis-Caird H, Croft C. Living through unsuccessful conception attempts: a grounded theory of resilience among women undergoing fertility treatment. J Reprod Infant Psychol. 2017 Sep;35(4),324–333. https://doi.org/10.1080/02646838.2017.1320366 ↩ ↩ ↩